The love of my life completely hates me..what do i do to get her back?

Well, if you are closer to the relationship spectrum, it was kinda over after your "first strike", and nothing could ever be the same after that. If she is just a friend with benefits because that's what SHE wants, then she is just using you and you don't need her. She doesn't sound like the greatest person anyways, you don't need people who are gonna treat you like ****, so if I were you, I would be with whoever makes you happiest (sounds like Jimmy) because maybe he's not the jerk they say he is, maybe they're just b****es