My mom has extreme anger, what can i do?

Speak to both of your parents together & tell them in a calm manner that this behavior is setting a bad example for you, in terms of how you view the ethos of your family.Tell your mom, though you love her dearly, he frequent temper tantrums are upsetting you & you feel very confused about it.Tell her that you are feeling a role reversal is taking place, when you try to solve these problems for her.Make her understand that this is affecting you badly & ask if we should seek counseling as a family.